What is a ladyboy?

A ladyboy, also commonly referred to as a kathoey (in Thailand), is a term used to describe a person assigned male at birth who identifies and lives as a woman. The term is primarily used in Southeast Asia.

Key aspects to understand include:

  • Gender Identity: Ladyboys identify as female, which is a core aspect of their self-perception. This is not a choice, but rather an intrinsic sense of self.
  • Sexual Orientation: A ladyboy's sexual orientation is separate from their gender identity. They may be attracted to men, women, or both.
  • Physical Appearance and Presentation: Many ladyboys use hormones and/or undergo gender-affirming surgeries to align their physical appearance with their gender identity. However, this is not a requirement for someone to identify as a ladyboy.
  • Cultural Context: The term "ladyboy" and its acceptance vary significantly across cultures. In some Southeast Asian countries, such as Thailand, kathoey (a similar term) are more visible and sometimes more accepted in society, though discrimination still exists. The use of the term "ladyboy" in Western contexts can be considered offensive by some.
  • Legal Recognition: The legal rights and recognition of ladyboys vary from country to country. Many face discrimination and challenges in obtaining legal documents that reflect their gender identity.
  • Discrimination and Prejudice: Ladyboys often face discrimination and prejudice in various aspects of life, including employment, healthcare, and social acceptance.